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September 05

New York, New York: Our Last Day August 24, 2007

New York, New York

Back in New York I was happy. The city was dreary and drab, but I was
happy. Little did i know that our next interviewee and I would have more
in common then anyone I met the entire trip. He was from Delaware, I was
from Delaware. He was performing theatre, I was a theatre major in
college. Last but not least he was a libra, I am a Libra.

I couldn't believe in a city of more than a million people I was talking
to one that was from my hometown, studied acting as I did, and was born in
the same month as me. It was a great ending to a great trip. I thought
back on all the people I had met over the last ten days. The advice
they'd given me, the stories they'd shared and all I could think about was
sharing them with my family and friends.

Now I'm back home, my daughter's happy and so am I. But I will
never forget the last ten days. How they've changed my perspective. How
much I've grown and learned. And how much further I have to go. I am
truly grateful I was able to experience this. I'll never forget it.

Kiki

Chicago August 23, 2007

Chicago

On our last day in chicago i was feeling pretty homesick. Our interview
was with the owner of a community theatre. To add insult
to injury his two beautiful children were running around the theatre the
entire time. All I wanted to do was get back home to my beautiful child.

I did take away something from the interview though. The owner of this
theatre had done something that every person with children should do or be
thinking about doing. He had begun his legacy. A legacy that he would be
leaving for his children to see. A legacy that his children could look
back and say "That was my father". It got me to thinking, what would be
the legacy I left for my child.

Leaving Chicago that's all I thought about. I had to have a > legacy,
and I had to get started on that legacy now. What would I do? How would
i do it? and when? I didn't have the answer to any of those questions,
but the good thing was that I was thinking about. And as long as I was
thinking about I might as well start acting on it. Chicago was great to
say the least, but I definitely took a lot more away from it then I had
expected to. I'll always remember Chicago as the city where my legacy
began.
August 21

The Balancing Act

8/19- On Saturday we completed our 6th interview.  It was awesome to say the least.  What I learned is the balancing act.  How to balance work with family with life with friends with self with everything else in the universe.  For some people the balancing act comes so easily.  they have the perfect job, perfect family, perfect friends, perfect life and balancing them all seem so possible.
 
for me balance should come natural.  i'm a libra and that's what we represent, the scales.  But the truth is that I'm always trying to find balance.  Like a pedilum.  I swing left, i swing right, sometimes to far in either direction but somewhere in between I find the balance.  So i guess you could say i'm always looking for the balance.
 
This is the longest i've ever been away from my daughter.  so right now I'm feeling a little unbalanced.  i'm used to waking up each morning and finding my balance with her.  This trip is wierd without her.  But I guess that's something that I'm going to have to find now.  A balance during times I can't be with my daughter.  I making it and learning each day.  Today it's all about the balance.
 
kiki

Charlotte

More North Carolina for us.  Outside of the heat, the south isn't really what I expected, which I think is a good thing. Today we interviewed Max Siegel, head of Dale Earnhardt Inc.  This is a man who runs a multi-billion dollar company, oversees merchandising, racing teams, even a small air flite, and here he was inviting us into his home.  Offering us breakfast Saturday morning with his wife and kids.  It was nice to see someone so important in a "home" environment.  It makes you realize that they are just people. We've been visiting people in their offices and in their studios, places of work, etc.  This was the first interview we've done in someone's living room.  It gave everything a more personal feel.  Max has an amazing story and to speak with someone who has been so successful in so many different fields was really inspiring.  Despite his accomplishments he was tremedously humble which is something to always aspire to.  In reflecting on his success, Max attributed much of it to being true to himself and following his internal compass. He said you have to make choices that "feel right."  If it doesn't feel right, you shouldn't be doing it.  I've done a lot of things that didn't necessarily feel right.  I've just done them because I thought I was supposed to, or had to, or it was what was expected of me.  Max said to follow your internal compass because it usually leads you where you need to be.  I'm going to start doing that.  Wonder where it will take me...

Desta

8/18

Today was one of the most memorable days of my adult life.  I returned to my Alma mater to interview the current President.  We visited some local historical places and it gave me a pride I hadn't felt when I was a student.  Coming from an all female HSBC (historically black college) it was great to talk to someone who could identify with some of the same social and cultural issues I identify with.  A deep and profound respect was gained today for freedom.  Having certain freedoms, not having certain freedoms.  it made me look at tomorrow in a whole new light.  I better understand my freedoms and the freedoms that have been gained for myself and my children.  i'm happy to be a part of this institutions incredible past and future.

This trip is opening up a whole side of me i don't visit very often.  I don't expose myself to some of the simplest things that make me who I am.  i had a real and true conversation with a person who i wouldn't normally have had the opportunity to meet or talk to and i am very happy about that.  i look forward for what's next for me and i'm excited to see.

Kiki
 
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