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September 05 New York, New York: Our Last Day August 24, 2007New York, New York Chicago August 23, 2007Chicago August 21 The Balancing Act8/19- On Saturday we completed our 6th interview. It was awesome to say the least. What I learned is the balancing act. How to balance work with family with life with friends with self with everything else in the universe. For some people the balancing act comes so easily. they have the perfect job, perfect family, perfect friends, perfect life and balancing them all seem so possible. for me balance should come natural. i'm a libra and that's what we represent, the scales. But the truth is that I'm always trying to find balance. Like a pedilum. I swing left, i swing right, sometimes to far in either direction but somewhere in between I find the balance. So i guess you could say i'm always looking for the balance. This is the longest i've ever been away from my daughter. so right now I'm feeling a little unbalanced. i'm used to waking up each morning and finding my balance with her. This trip is wierd without her. But I guess that's something that I'm going to have to find now. A balance during times I can't be with my daughter. I making it and learning each day. Today it's all about the balance. kiki CharlotteMore North Carolina for us. Outside of the heat, the south isn't really what I expected, which I think is a good thing. Today we interviewed Max Siegel, head of Dale Earnhardt Inc. This is a man who runs a multi-billion dollar company, oversees merchandising, racing teams, even a small air flite, and here he was inviting us into his home. Offering us breakfast Saturday morning with his wife and kids. It was nice to see someone so important in a "home" environment. It makes you realize that they are just people. We've been visiting people in their offices and in their studios, places of work, etc. This was the first interview we've done in someone's living room. It gave everything a more personal feel. Max has an amazing story and to speak with someone who has been so successful in so many different fields was really inspiring. Despite his accomplishments he was tremedously humble which is something to always aspire to. In reflecting on his success, Max attributed much of it to being true to himself and following his internal compass. He said you have to make choices that "feel right." If it doesn't feel right, you shouldn't be doing it. I've done a lot of things that didn't necessarily feel right. I've just done them because I thought I was supposed to, or had to, or it was what was expected of me. Max said to follow your internal compass because it usually leads you where you need to be. I'm going to start doing that. Wonder where it will take me... Desta 8/18Today was one of the most memorable days of my adult life. I returned to my Alma mater to interview the current President. We visited some local historical places and it gave me a pride I hadn't felt when I was a student. Coming from an all female HSBC (historically black college) it was great to talk to someone who could identify with some of the same social and cultural issues I identify with. A deep and profound respect was gained today for freedom. Having certain freedoms, not having certain freedoms. it made me look at tomorrow in a whole new light. I better understand my freedoms and the freedoms that have been gained for myself and my children. i'm happy to be a part of this institutions incredible past and future. This trip is opening up a whole side of me i don't visit very often. I don't expose myself to some of the simplest things that make me who I am. i had a real and true conversation with a person who i wouldn't normally have had the opportunity to meet or talk to and i am very happy about that. i look forward for what's next for me and i'm excited to see. Kiki
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